I had been experiencing a lot of pressure emotionally and in my office. Balancing my family and office responsibilities was taking its toll on me. It was as if my seams would burst. Having my prayer and Bible study time was an extra effort and I wasn’t satisfied with the time I was spending.

In fact, there was a general dissatisfaction with everything. My family’s attendance at weekly services and church programs had dwindled to almost nothing and I craved the opportunity for fellowship. In all, I knew I needed help and fast. I tried to listen to messages and pray in the Spirit as much as I could, but the depth of the pressure was sucking me in. My husband and I were not agreeing on a lot of issues and it was giving me cause for concern. I couldn’t talk with anyone because I didn’t want to cast my husband in a bad light and bring a 3rd party in “family issues.”

I began to contemplate moving out of my home and giving my husband space. The desire to walk away with my children was so strong because I felt I couldn’t take it anymore. Then I bought the message CD by Pastor NKechi on Dealing with Conflict in Marriage as a last resort. After listening to the message, I tried to speak with my husband about how hurt I was feeling but it didn’t go well so I made up my mind to leave finally.

The next day, I ensured my debit cards were in my bag and prepared my children’s bag for school and extra wear for a night. I left the car at home and went to the office with the mind to turn in my resignation and leave for any destination. All this while, thoughts of what I will say to my pastors crossed my mind. How would my actions affect those around me? What of all the messages I had been privileged to listen to? I was torn on what to do. Then, Pastor Dupe just called me, she asked how I was and I said fine trying to sound upbeat; but she asked again, “How are you?” I knew that I couldn’t lie so I just spilled everything. She counseled me, prayed and told me to go back home which I did.

God came through for me and restored peace to my home. My husband and I took time to listen to the messages on conflict resolution in marriage and the Intent of His Grace (Parts 1 – 8) by Pastor Nkechi Ene (Mrs.) We have been able to peacefully resolve issues and 14th August 2014 marked our 4th year in marriage. God has done so much more to mention and He is still doing more. To Him be all the glory forever. Amen

I encourage all couples to trust God and His servants. It’s better to burn your reputation at your pastor’s feet than burn your marriage! God bless Pastor Kech and God bless TCC!