Ever since I set my mind that I was ready for marriage towards the end of my Youth Service,

it was as if there was an announcement in the kingdom of darkness that “Comfort says she is

now ready to get married let’s go after her.”

The different men who asked for my hand in marriage had a single secret agenda, which was to have sex with me. This was very confusing for me as I wondered if I must have sex before marriage. I wondered why sex had to be their first criteria before any marriage discussion. In fact, one of the men that I met was a medical doctor who made it clear that there will be no marriage if he does not have sex with me first. This was a very disappointing period in my life as I wondered why every man I met kept demanding for sex. Some would ask with subtlety while others will be aggressive, even those that profess to be born again Christians. This bothered me, and I will always get thought bombs that this was the only way I could get married at this time. I then realized that this was a temptation from the Devil.

As a born again child of God, I knew in my heart that sex before marriage is against God’s order and plan. I knew this was wrong so I stuck with God’s principles for marriage. I dug into the Scriptures over and over again just to confirm that God’s word is firm and cannot be changed by times and seasons. This kept me firm too on what I had believed.

At a point I wondered why the Devil was so much interested in my marriage matters. I knew that there must be something good ahead for me that the he was coveting and wants to steal. This realization made me to draw closer to God seeing that outside Christ I was finished. God indeed kept me all these years of my waiting for the right partner.

I escaped several traps in the form of rape, abuse, all because I refused their advancements. At a point it was streams of married men in disguise coming for me. One thing that helped me through this was that I sought the face of God for every supposedly potential visitor. Whenever I go on my knee to ask God about each person, the Holy Spirit will remind me of a question I needed to ask them, and whenever I asked them this question, their bad intentions will be exposed and they would no longer continue with the relationship.

Just as I am celebrating my deliverance and escape from one trap, lo and behold another man will show up with a different strategy. It was very obvious something was fishing. Their father, the Devil, sent them all!

At a point, I asked God where all the genuine brothers are. The only answer I always got was His answer that “I have reserved for Myself seven thousand men who have not bowed the knee to Baal (Romans 11:4). This encouraged me and kept me going, but sincerely I was fed up with chasing the vultures.

I am sharing this testimony because God has defeated the Devil and all his cohorts who conspired to take me out of God’s kingdom and I am declaring today that it is too late to take me out because I have been grafted in; no turning back!

I have met my elegant, God fearing, Boaz. This was purely a divine arrangement. Sometime in 2012, one of those times I had told God that if He knows that the genuine brothers are finished, He should let me know. Then God asked me to sow a specific seed to my Pastor. Yes, I know I sow seeds but this one looked tough. I waved it off and that year passed.

Meanwhile, I had admired certain qualities about her husband and I would tell God that I would like those qualities in the man that would marry me. Each time I prayed, I reminded God about those qualities and He will remind me of the seed He asked me to sow and that will be the end of that discussion.

Two years later I had struggled with that instruction, I knew it was time for action; no more delay. In January 2014, I sowed the sacrificial seed as instructed against all the financial needs staring at my face. I even boldly wrote on it the expected time of results. I remember saying to God that I was ready to accept His own son that year; He should send me only His genuine son. No more fakes. This was just the case. In March 2014, when I eventually had my first conversation with my husband, the God-sent man, it was like a big joke. By June he had proposed. By November, I had done my introduction and finally in December 2014, we got married.

God amazed me beyond words. He used every available vessel to bring our dreams to pass. Everybody was sowing as if this was the last marriage supper. It was very clear God’s hand was in it. It only took a simple obedience which brought me this far and I can confidently tell you that all the qualities I had desired in a man, I find in this one sent by God. I do not take this favour for granted. I want to advise that whenever God gives an instruction, do not delay.

I want to specially thank my Pastor, Pastor Nkechi and her husband who happens to be my MD at work, for setting the pace for me to follow. Pastor, your generation will continually call you blessed. Your marriage set the pace for me to make contact and indeed it yielded results.

For those in doubt, this is the right place to be; we have all we need here. No need to look outside. Just follow divine instructions and you will not regret it. Just like Pastor said, “You have the trigger for your miracle; whatever miracle you desire.”